Wanting More

Hi all

I just wanted to share with everyone how amazed I’ve been by God the last while. I know from my other posts I just sound bitter and grumpy but that is not the case at all. God has been blowing me away the last few weeks. 

You know when things are just clicking between you and God every little details seems to be taken care of and you always seem to have just what you need. That’s totally been happening during my time in scripture. It’s been fantastic as God has been revealing things to me just as I need them in quite a remarkable way. 

I’m in the final stretch of my job and I had no idea what this time was going to be like or how I was going to handle it. While I am kind of sad about the big change I have been enjoying a wonderful peace the last while. I’m the kind of person who can stew about things and let them build up inside of me and I was worried about becoming bitter at this time in my journey. To my amazement I’m feeling light and free right now.  Feeling like I have specific purposes each day (despite the current busyness) and that something exciting is just around the corner. This is exactly what I was hoping would happen as the weight of ministry was lifting. 

Even on a financial level. Daily my wife and I are being shown we will more than taken care of. Financial worry can often be found in our house but again the peace we are all feeling right now is incredible. 

How do I know all this peace I’m feeling right now is of God? Because I’m also feeling challenged. Each day God is showing me things in my life that need fixing or changed. I’m feeling very convicted about things as a husband, father and man in the community that I need to be doing. 

While this is a big time of change I am thankful that God is leading me through it. While there is sadness each day it is becoming clearer this is the right decision. While there are challenges I am excited about the blessings and the future to come.

So I’m preparing for my final Sunday coming up this week. 

This past Sunday we did a big youth band. One member of the team described the size of the team as “epic”.  In my three or so years in my ministry position I think the greatest thing we’ve accomplished is the engaging of many youths in what we are trying to do in worship ministries. There is still a long way to go but some really great seeds have been planted.  Four years ago there was only a handful of youths involved and for the most part that was limited to teenage boys being stuck behind the sound board. That was the only thing the were being equipped to do and they were the only ones convinced to serve in that area. 

This past Sunday we had the youth leading the musical worship, playing all the instruments and leading all the prayers.  It was great. I had a blast being a part of it with them.

It also excited and depressed me.  It excited me because it affirmed many of the things I see that are possible for the ministry that I have been leading. It depressed me a little because I have not been able to lead it to where I think it should and could go.  

I have been very blessed in my job. As worship leading jobs go I have had it very easy. There have been a lot of changes in the last three years and there has been very little “blow up” that you hear about in other churches. Where I have struggled is that we just stopped when we got comfy. There is still so much potential and things that could be done (specifically to engage a younger generation) but not enough of a desire to push through to accomplish them.  That has added to my struggles and my decision to move on.  I want more.  I want to reach for every sky I can. Both personally and as a part of a community of faith.

What a day so far. It is currently 2:30 in the afternoon and this is the first chance I’ve had to sit. It’s been busy. I helped some friends finish moving the last things out of their house today but other than that I have accomplished nothing important.  You know how all organizational and scheduling books tell you to prioritize things that are important not things that are urgent. That hasn’t worked today. It seems like the last few days has been about getting done a whole lot of little unimportant things. Not that little things aren’t important, just the things that I’ve had to work on have been unimportant. 

I spent a lot of time working this weekend and I spent most of that time on very little of the important things I needed to. I spent very little time with my kids (other than a really awesome sled ride on Sunday).  This is has left me wanting more (hey wait….. that’s the name of this blog) and reaffirmed my need for some big life changes. 

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In previous posts I’ve mentioned that I am in the process of leaving my ministry position but haven’t really talked about why. Well that is what I’m going to do here. I apologize for the length. 

The best way to describe it is that I want to feel alive. I want to live a passionate life and my current ministry position was hindering that rather than enhancing it.

I have worked in a halftime Director of Worship position for about three and a half years.   Before I was called to this position I worked full-time in music. I played piano for everything from a large variety of bands, opera and musical theatre. I’ve been teaching private lessons for about 10 years. I’ve done instrument sales (if you can sell pianos in Costco, you can sell anything). When I was young I even did a two year apprenticeship for piano tuning and repair work. But the thing that always made me feel most alive was working doing recording and audio work.  

Somewhere in the middle of all of this I had dedicated my life to Jesus.  

Shortly after I married my wonderful wife I felt a stirring in me.  I struggled badly with what I saw taking place during worship services. I am big on doing something all or nothing, doing it the best that I can and doing it for the absolute most right reasons.   It is not my desire to judge how or why anyone else does something. If I’m being honest back then it probably was said with a bit of a judgemental attitude.  

I was looking around and wondering how and where I could help.  That lead to the stirring I had. I wanted to get involved and help in anyway that I could.  That lead me to eventually apply and work in my current position.  It meant us moving from our hometown but when you feel God calling you go. 

It was a halftime position I applied for which at the time I thought was fantastic. It let me get involved and help but would allow me to continue on with the other things I was interested in. Especially the studio.  Boy was I wrong. My all or nothing attitude started to kick in. I totally worked on pouring myself into what I was doing. But the problem was which thing do I pour myself into? I tried pouring myself into everything. Well that is just a recipe for exhaustion and frustration. Which I started to suffer from.  It was not helping me feel alive. 

Then we had a baby. Then we had another baby.

Needless to say the balance in my life was way out of whack.  So we began examining our lives to see what God was calling us to do. I really love leading worship in the local church. However, the reality of serving in that type of ministry began to take it’s toll. Always trying to make as many people as happy as possible and trying to meet all expectations (both real and perceived) makes it difficult to connect with God on a Sunday morning and it also begins to work it’s way into other areas in life as well. To be totally honest, I also put too much pressure on myself and there were larger goals I thought could be accomplished in my ministry but were probably not going to become a reality in the near future.  I think handling these struggles would be more manageable (not solved) in a full-time work situation. The reality of having these stresses and then needing to go and make a living became too much.

During this time more and more work was and is being provided for us in the studio.  Working in the studio excites me to no end. Even needing to deal with clients, business and tax details, technical problems and some crazy working hours doesn’t stress me out because I can see the bigger picture with what I’m doing. This past summer we were seriously wrestling with this possible decision and feeling led to leaving my ministry position but really struggled if we could make this move work financially.  Then I had a meeting with a photographer friend. Photography has been my creative outlet for a few years and I had helped this friend out with a few shoots and stuff for fun and to make a couple of extra bucks.  Well he offered me a job doing post production work for him.  This is what made us believe we could afford to make the change we are currently making and felt like God was providing these opportunities.

So basically I want to focus on the things in life that make me feel most alive. That is closeness with God, and time with family and pursuing my creative goals musically and photographically. I want to live.